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Death in the Club. Murder at Spotlight LIVE in New York City

Filed Under Death in the Club, Lil Kim Birthday Murder, Maya Medena, Maya the B, Spotlight Live murder 

This past Sunday, rapper Lil Kim celebrated her birthday at one of New York City’s most poppin’ night clubs. Spotlight Live, located in the heart of Times Square, garnered success from DSA’s (Shante Daz and Eric Nicks’ company) infamous “Spotlight Live Showcases” usually done every two weeks. With celebrities of all levels of caliber gracing the elegant venue- it has really become the city’s new Apollo. I’ve seen everyone from Jay-Z to Denzel Washington up in that beetch- so yes- the groupies have been alerted by text message to add 2nd Tuesdays to their calendars.

Nevertheless, with every good thing comes a shit load of possibility for bad things to happen. Apparently, a young woman and party goer of the Queen B’s official B-day bash was reported “missing” by her mother on Tuesday. Friends stated that the last time they saw Ingrid Rivera was at the party. This morning reports have confirmed that the body of the 24 year old Hispanic female was found yesterday afternoon in a rooftop utility closet of Spotlight Live. A maintenance worker discovered her- bloody from a head wound, and her dress hiked up, indicating she may have been dragged into the secluded area intentionally. Although all the details have not been released, some sources say that the girl was beaten to death. A friend of the victim stated that Rivera had argued with the club’s manager during the party. Some witnesses said that the venue’s management kicked Rivera out of the party because she was “drunk.” There is no official connection with Lil Kim and I don’t speculate there will be.

This situation particularly catches my attention because women need to be more careful, period. Not in the clubs, not at night, not on the train- PERIOD! It’s becoming more and more of a common case scenario for women in New York. There have been sooooooooo many times that I’ve enjoyed myself- let’s say a little “too much”- while out partying, totally wasted. You know the potential of crazy shit that could’ve happened to me while drunk?! It’s scary to think about. If you wake up the next morning not remembering much- or remembering embarrassing shit that you don’t ever want to think about again- you need to chill out. Or at least have a designated defender to ward off any “drunken hot girl” predators. Anyway- long story short- but true story- I get sexually harassed every day. Now there are different levels of sexual harassment that every woman gets subjected too. The first level would be the group that includes things like lewd comments, cat calls and saying stuff like “God Bless You Mami”- don’t let the religious connotation fool you- they have sex in their eyes when they use the Lord’s name.

Now the second level is when you know the person- and they constantly get at you- if it’s telling you how good you look to asking you out on dates. Now this may sound like “courting” but it’s actually unwanted and unwarranted. This often times happens on the work place, and since there is so little room for corporate growth for females- we tend to remain passive and sweep these advancements under the rug. We say “no,” yall think it’s “yes.” That has always been the strain between men and women- the power element dominates free will in many instances in the past, present and surely the future. Men are physically stronger- so when they realized that they can kick our asses to do whatever they want- it became a worldwide epidemic. It’s like all the men in the world passed the word along that brute strength gets you whatever you want in life. That’s when women became the housing facility for their offspring as well as the caretaker of the home. Now that sounds very brash and impetuous- I know what you’re thinking some of you out there- “this girl is a feminist, bitter bitch!” But, I’m not a feminist in the sense that I hate men- because I love them. I just believe that this is the pitiless reality of the power of women in the history of the world.

Okay let me give you the last two levels of sexual harassment that you may not know that many women endure. The third level can be from someone you may or may not know and involves gratuitous touching. So many times, men have rubbed my butt or held my hand too long or touched my leg when it was totally unprovoked and I always wondered what the hell gave you the idea that I wanted that? Does it say molest me on my forehead? Cop a feel for free? And how uncomfortable and awkward is it for us to have to counteract those actions when it’s someone we know and most likely have to deal with on a regular basis? We don’t want to fight- we are lovers and nurturers but at the same time we’re also very sharp with our moves although many times we have to move in silence to avoid being detected by the haters, trying to keep us down in the ranks. And, like I said before- there isn’t much room for us in the business world- so we take a lot of shit to keep our livelihoods progressive. It’s a sad thing, but we’re real warriors- and like every movement- we will have our time to reign soon. This level of sexual harassment also can come from strangers- which is very hard to rationalize. I’ve been there myself a few times. For example- you’re riding the train on a Monday morning during rush hour on the express 4 from Union Square to Grand Central Station- a man pushes up closer than normal. Now the trains are almost always fully packed during rush hour traffic. So packed that sometimes your purse which normally hangs from your shoulder is now resting ON your shoulder. Anyway- to keep it moving- some sick bastards prey on these situations and take advantage of the overcrowded subway cars to cop feels. In my case, and this happened twice to me in six months, a perv actually pulled out his penis and persisted to rub it on my backside. This one minute ride gives these guys just enough time to jack off. They love it! They get a thrill out of it! And their goal is to bust all over you! My perp didn’t get that much satisfaction out of me but still- I didn’t wake up that morning asking for “stranger penis” on my ass. VIOLATION! But again we go through it.

The last level of sexual harassment is the most serious and it includes violence and force. Although the other levels all include force- this level is about physical force being used on a woman to get something sexually or emotionally stimulating from their victims. Sad to say- but some men enjoy the discomfort they know they can inflict. They enjoy watching us squirm and resist- it turns some guys on. Our pleas to stop are their green light to go further- until it’s a full fledge infringement of a woman’s mind, body and soul. Rape occurs, savage beatings take place and in the worst case- murder. I could go in really deep with this one- but I’ve already killed you guys with my female power breakdown! lol anyway- WE go through this shit every day. Women all over the world are getting raped, assualted, subjected to demeaning acts, compensated less, passed over for promotions, and disregarded in the home and office! But we still here son!

Hey guess what guys? We are in the age of high-tech weapons and anyone can pull a trigger or press a button! Don’t let a woman get her hands on some nukes! We’re smarter and way more strategic than you guys too! JOKING :) Equality would be ideal and it’s definitely inspiring to see that America almost had a female presidential candidate which is monumental for our history.
Oh- hate to say this- but shout out to Paris Hilton for firing back and the” old whitey” BKA John McCaine. I posted the video if you haven’t seen it yet!
Progress is a slow process but we ain’t got nothing but time!!!

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    GOD BLESS U MAMI FOR SPEAKIN FOR THA MAMIS

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